It is often said that the British are a nation of animal lovers. While there is seemingly no sign that this is any more true of the UK than most other countries, there is plenty of evidence that we love our pets, and 50% of adults in this country have a pet. It is the case that sometimes parents hold off on having pets – even when their children want one – but there are plenty of reasons to believe that becoming a pet owner is good for us.
If you’re questioning whether or not this is the case, a quick look at the following reasons will leave you in no doubt that getting a pet is an ideal chance for you – and your kids – to learn a few things about animals, about life and about yourselves.
They teach kids responsibility and compassion
Most children are naturally empathetic, and will seek to soothe another person who is having a visibly difficult time, but having pets is often the first time that they are in a position to put that empathy into action. They get to notice a pet’s cues; when a dog is irritated, when a cat is hungry (and very much vice versa too!), as well as understanding when it’s time to exercise the animals, play with them, and even taking it upon themselves to learn some tips for cleaning a dog bed if they’re old enough. The lessons that a pet can provide for a young human are incredible, and excellent preparation for being a compassionate, practical adult.
They teach adults to simplify and enjoy life
Although it is a fact that pets can experience mental illness, it is also true that they are less weighed down by the everyday and can enjoy the moment in a way few humans do. You may notice it if you are feeling down from time to time; many pets – dogs and cats alike – will seek you out and sit with you. A few moments petting your four-legged friend can make life seem a lot less gloomy.
They teach us all how to relate to others
Having a pet not only gives us an insight into how animals live, but they help us bond with other humans who have the same affection for their pets. When you’ve lived for a while with a cat, you can often be there with advice for a friend who is experiencing difficulties with their own furry companion. When it comes to picking presents, you’ll know just where to get the perfect dachshund gifts for a friend or family member with a sausage dog. People without pets often struggle to understand the way ”pet people” talk and act, but it makes perfect sense to anyone with a pet.
They teach us their likes and dislikes
One thing that most humans could stand to learn – around humans and animals alike – is the importance of listening to others and responding to their cues. If a dog or a cat does not appreciate the way it is being handled, it will let you know. Cats, in particular, will only open up to a human when the person makes the effort to show fondness in a respectful way. If we blunder up to an unfamiliar feline and just try to give it a fuss, it will usually show its irritation. The more you get to know a pet, the more they will open up. And when they do, it’s magical.
Having pets is a tremendous learning experience for young and old alike. The life skills you can gain from keeping any kind of pet are useful lessons you won’t quickly forget.