Living in Tonbridge in Kent, there are some amazing things to do with kids locally, especially when the weather starts to perk up.
You can see some of the places we’ve been to under the ‘Travel and days out‘ tab – which I am slowly adding to as time permits.
However, I’ll be frank; when you have kids who are too young to be in school and you have seven days a week to fill, paying entry fees to some of these fabulous places – even when it’s only for yourself – can mount up. For me, they are more of a weekend family activity, and during the week we aim to keep the costs down as much as possible.
I’ve rounded up a list of the places that we tend to go when we need a trip out of the house without spending too much cash, and here they are:
1) Broadview Gardens and Tea Room, Hadlow

Just outside of Tonbridge, on the Hadlow College grounds are Broadview Gardens, which are kept by the horticulture students. The parking is free and plentiful, and you can easily kill an hour or two meandering round the gardens, which are beautiful at any time of year.

As a bonus there is a lovely little tea rooms there and some tables outside overlooking some swings and a slide, so you can have a cup of tea and a scone watching the kids play. There is even a little family room complete with toys suitable for toddlers inside, in case the weather doesn’t lend itself to tea outdoors. Nine times out of ten during the week, it’s pretty much empty.
Find out more here.
2) Haysden Country Park, Tonbridge

You do have to pay for parking, but that’s the only cost and it isn’t expensive (and you can use your mobile to pay). Use the recently-updated play park, feed the ducks, go for a stroll/cycle/scoot around the lake or through the woods.
There’s a small outdoor cafe if you fancy a cup of tea, but if you can be prepared then take a picnic with you as there are benches dotted about.

One circuit of the lake is usually enough to wear a toddler out. There are toilets near the entrance.
Find out more here.
3) Tonbridge Castle Grounds and Tonbridge Racecourse Sportsground/Park, Tonbridge
The Whingelets like nothing better than running around the open area in front of the castle. As the big one puts it, ‘I like princesses and princesses live in castles’. It’s a nice open spot for a game of chase and a roll around on the grass, apparently.
Next to it is the river and if you walk along it you will meet a multitude of ducks, swans, pigeons and squirrels.
I have told the kids if they catch squirrels they can keep them as pets, so that’s always a good one to keep them active for a while.
There’s also the big park (with sandpit) nearby, which is often busy depending on when you visit but obviously much quieter during school hours. The park has a mini golf, which isn’t free, and we’ve never been… but one day perhaps. One day. There is also a miniature train outside of the swimming pool, but it only runs at set times. There are public loos just outside the park.
4) Sevenoaks Wildlife Reserve, Sevenoaks

Get your wellies on and go for a stroll through the woods, watch the birds from the hide (unless there are serious bird watching types in there, I’m not sure they appreciate noisy toddlers, and neither do the birds unsurprisingly), collect sticks – that kind of thing.
Parking is free, there’s a little cafe and a small museum (the Jeffery Harrison Visitor Centre) inside with taxidermied wildlife if that’s your bag and your kids are too young to ask why they’re not moving and old enough to understand it (I’m not sure I really am, but hey).
There is a buggy friendly route and there are are loos near the entrance.


